Elixir de Vie Liposuction by Dr Arthur Tjandra

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The Real Skinny on Lipo: Living through it and Loving the Results!

OK, fess up ladies… Liposuction… most of us have thought about it at least once or twice in our adult lives. Even if you feel pretty good about your thighs, with modern society’s eternal quest for a better appearance being so ingrained you’d have to be living on the moon not to at least wonder about whether it could actually work for you.
About six months back, I started to wonder about it for myself. You see… I have lousy genetics. No matter how much I exercise and/or diet, I’m cursed with massive thighs and upper arms. I’m not even exaggerating--they really are disproportionate. Since the age of 14, none of my clothes have fit. Pants are always too loose in the waist or too tight in the leg. Sleeveless dresses and blouses are impossible. And it’s not just about feeling self-conscious over the way I look, it’s that I never feel entirely comfortable in my own skin or my clothes. It impacts so many aspects of my life—from how I am at work, to meeting new people—even my posture by the end of the day. I started to think, “What if I could feel more comfortable in myself every day? What would that be like? What other things would it make room for?”

I decided to do some homework.

First the basics… What exactly is liposuction, again? Simply put, liposuction is a surgical procedure to remove excess fat. The surgeon makes a small incision in the skin, inserts a specially designed tube that excises and vacuums excess fatty tissue out of the body. At the same time, fluid containing anesthetic and a blood-clotting agent is injected under the skin to reduce bleeding, alleviate pain, and make the tissue easier to work with. In fact, in most cases, putting the patient to sleep isn’t necessary.

Who is the ideal candidate? (Am I?) For Lipo to really work, you pretty much have to start in a good place. Liposuction is not a substitute for weight loss. When it comes to straight up obesity, diet and exercise is still the best solution. Liposuction is most appropriate for someone who is of normal or nearly normal weight with areas of disproportionate fat accumulation. In my case, I would probably never be considered overweight—just misshapen with excess fat in my hips, thighs and arms. The other thing you have to be, for Lipo to work, is young(ish). Those under 35 years of age, who still have elastic skin, tend to fare better than older candidates, as the skin needs to conform to the new body shape. In my case, I’m 32—but a girlfriend of mine who is in her 40’s needed to combine her Lipo with a tuck because of the elasticity factor.
Will my fat come back? Technically no. Once the fat cells are removed, they will not regenerate. However, the fat cells that do remain may increase in size. I know it may seem unfair, but the bottom line is that to see the best results from Lipo, you still have to exercise and watch what you eat after surgery.

What’s the recovery like? Most people can go home on the same day as the procedure. You can expect to feel stiff, achy and numb with a return to normal activities in a few days. Wearing a special elastic undergarment for support for about three to four weeks after the surgery can ease discomfort—especially if you experience swelling.

What are the risks? Liposuction is generally considered a safe procedure, but knowledge of the risks is essential. In situations where a great deal of fat is being removed, the risk of blood loss is higher, and so you’ll either want to have the procedure done in a hospital setting (rather than an outpatient clinic) or you’ll want to break things down over the course of several sessions. I opted for the latter—doing one session for my thighs and another for my arms. It just made the most sense when considering risk, comfort and cost.

How should I choose a doctor? Doctors from a variety of specialties perform liposuction--you do not want an allergist working on your thighs! Be sure to choose a provider certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery. This is extremely important in ensuring that the procedure will be carried out safely in accordance with the current standards of the profession. I also think you also need to feel super comfortable with the doctor, nurse and overall clinic environment during your initial consult—but more about this in my next post…

For now, while I am really happy with my decision to have Lipo, I think the most important thing to remember is: Don’t expect instant results. I have impatient friends who expected to wake up skinny and perfect. It’s just not how it works—which is one of the reasons I’m writing this blog. The real skinny on Lipo is that, as with any surgery, it involves a significant healing process, and you need to figure out how to enjoy that process in order to see the improvements... day by day…

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More on how to do that soon, xoxo!


Three Steps to Sizzling Summer Legs

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With summer fast approaching, now is the time to refine a routine for drop-dead gorgeous legs. With all those cute shorts and breezy skirts we'll be wearing, our legs will be front and center for attention. It doesn't have to be anything tedious or time-consuming. A quick, easy routine is all it takes to be ready for a day at the beach!

Step One: Remove the Hair!

(Seems obvious, right?!) But, what razor should we use so that our legs don't get nicked-up in the process? My favorite is GILLETTE VENUS EMBRACE.

I love, love, love this razor!!! (Did I mention I love this razor?!)

It has 5 blades so it makes for a much faster shave. But, what makes this truly the best, is the "ribbon of moisture" they place around the blades. As soon as this "ribbon" gets wet, it becomes super slick and it coats your skin as you shave. I have never had such a nick-free shave as I have with this razor! They need to bottle their "ribbon of moisture" and sell it as a lotion because it is some pretty potent stuff! My legs feel so soft and supple after shaving with this razor. 

Another thing I like is the handle. It has a soft grip handle that fits your fingers perfectly (non-slippery, even when wet.) And the blade cartridges are easy to change too. You can buy them in refill packs of four or eight. It's true that the cartridges can be a bit pricey, but I think it's completely worth it for such a smooth shave. It's a truly wonderful product!

STEP TWO: Moisturize!

So many choices for this one! But, I really like VASELINE SPRAY & GO TOTAL MOISTURE. I love that you can spray this on and it absorbs so quickly that you can get dressed right away. There is no sticky or greasy feeling with this like you get with traditional lotions. I always hate that "drying time" you need to give yourself after applying lotion from a bottle. With this product, I just hold the can about 5 inches from my skin and spray evenly. It does require a quick rub-in but absorbs very fast in to the skin. I love that it's pure oat extract so it smells really nice too. (Just be careful about using it while standing on a tiled floor. This stuff coats the floor like cooking grease . . . ouch!)

 STEP THREE: Color!

One of the best things about summer is being able to break out all those great sandals  . . . and painting your toenails is just another summer "accessory" as far as I am concerned. You can change your color as often as your mood and there are just so many pretty colors to choose from! The trick is to get a polish that is long-lasting and chip-resistant. My choice is LA Colors COLOR CRAZE. My favorite summer color is SEA SIREN (it's a bright, bold teal that reminds me of a tropical ocean!) There are TONS of colors to choose from in this line; all reasonably priced. Amazon.com even has a 24-pack kit available for $38 so that you'll have enough color to choose from all summer long!

So, there you have it: Three simple steps to sizzling summer legs! 

(See you at the beach!!)

So you want to be compared to a music DIVA, huh??

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We all emulate the stars to some degree, don’t we? Whether its hairstyles, fashion, or just a little attitude, we’ve all done it once or twice. The easiest way to get a piece of Hollywood these days, is to buy one of the hundreds of different perfumes that are on the market. It seems like everyone has their own scent these days! There is one product line that I love more than the others and that is the line from Jennifer Lopez.

My favorite is still the original, which is "Glow." It comes in a beautiful frosted glass bottle with a faux rhinestone JLo"necklace" hanging on it. Glow is the perfect fragrance for daytime; light and refreshing but not overpowering. In fact, the scent is so subtle, I find myself wishing it was a bit more powerful. Luckily, they make a shower gel and body lotion in the same scent. By using at least one of these in addition to the perfume, I find it is just the right amount for me. The scent blends flowers, amber and fruit with vanilla and the result is clean and fresh. Perfect for the office or out running errands.

For evenings out, I prefer something a little more toxic and rich and LA Glow fits the bill. It comes in a beautiful deep purple glass bottle and holds scents of blackberry and plum along with magnolia and peony. The scent lasts for hours and it's just a bit richer (more sensual) smell than the original Glow. I purchased a travel atomizer (also in purple!) so that I can carry this fragrance with me when I go out to refresh as needed. It's great for a little extra spritz during a night of wild dancing!

It's funny how scent can evoke memories or create an experience so real we are transported in our minds. This is what Miami Glow does for me. It is like sunshine in a bottle! When I spritz this scent on I am instantly transported to the beach or ocean; some place completely tropical. It's a great blend of coconut water, pink grapefruit, passion fruit, crystal mush, sheer amber, vanilla orchid and blonde woods. This scent is ideal for summer and, even in the winter, it instantly reminds me of summer! Miami Glo is basically a hot summer night, the mist of sea water in the air and fruity tropical drinks all wrapped in to one! Don't let the fairly plain bottle fool you . . . this perfume is sultry and sexy!

I love that Jennifer Lopez also offers most of her scents in gift sets. The Miami Glo set comes with a 1oz spray and a compact-size container of Golden Bronzing Powder. The powder was a fun treat as it's not something I would have normally purchased on its own. I enjoyed using it on a night out on the town (though am I not sure that I would purchase it again on its own).

I absolutely love her line! And, I like the fact that she just keeps coming up with more new scents all the time. Even though I have my favorites, it is still fun to try something new. So, check them out! Not only are they reasonably priced and beautifully packaged but, most importantly, they all smell delicious!!

How to ensure that Pregnancy Weight is lost quickly

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Most moms have a tale or two to tell about pregnancy weight; I had a typical experience during my first pregnancy; you see, I had never in my wildest dreams thought I would add that much weight that would make it a nightmare to loss it all. I casually assumed that since it had always been easy for me to lose weight; that I would lose weight would very fast. I was wrong. Truth be told, losing pregnancy weight is extremely difficult that is why one must never become addicted to food when in that pregnant state. As I packed on the pounds through the foods and cravings, with the silly notion of ‘’eating for two’’, I brushed off any thought of anxiety over weight gain as I honestly believed that I would lose it just as fast.

After childbirth, I could barely stand to look in the mirror. I hated what I saw; still, because of I was a lactating mother, I could barely control the hunger pangs and just continued eating. Did I think ‘Lose Wight’, ‘Weight loss’, ‘Belly fat’? Not the slightest bit. In my defence, I started jogging but the pound weren’t falling off just as fast and due to demands, I could barely keep up my jogging routine; I tried dieting but it was not working because I was abstaining from the wrong set foods and eating just what I was not supposed to eat.
Due to the presence of so much estrogen released during pregnancy, most times, it becomes an uphill task to dismantle the stacks of fat firmly built into the body. Also, muscles disappear during pregnancy making it really difficult to lose weight. Anyway, as I stopped breastfeeding, I began to consciously reduce my food intake and lower the frequency at which I eat. I started seeing a semblance of the old me infront of a mirror.

My tummy still was not obeying any reduction exercise then I got introduced to lose weight DVDs which I almost did not use. I was amazed at the transformation my stomach took; it flattened completely. Through my experience, I learnt not to eat for two during pregnancy as well as to eat healthy. It was a really difficult fight; but tell me ladies, do you have an even easier or better way to lose all that pregnacy fat? I really wuld want to know.

Exercises to make you Lose Weight in the Buttocks

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I hate it when my butt does not obey my movements; especially when it wants to fit into pants and it is just not working one bit! All the food I eat just goes down to my buttocks to build a home there. I have tried so many times but it would not lose weight. I often asked a number of my friends who gave me some steps on what to do. I have this close friend of mine who is an expert and instructor in weight loss showed me how to lose weight on my butt. It worked but it stopped because, I did not continue the exercises. She gave me the following:
  1. Walking: A long walk each day, keeps your butt in shape, as well as the muscles
  2. Squats: Squats are authentic for butt weight loss.. It could be rather uncomfortable, nut It fires every little muscle fibre running through your glutens and it not only works just for the butt for the hips, thighs and calves as a bonus. Squats should be a staple of any basic butt routine.
  3. Lunges: This is trusted another exercise that slims the buttocks down. Lunges work multiple muscles at the same time, they are so effective. I would refer you all to YouTube to see how squats and lunges is done.
  4. Indoor Mountain climbing: That if done rigorously slims the butt down.
  5. Running: helps in reducing and sharpening the size of one’s buttocks; it is a cardiovascular exercise that burns calories and tones the butt muscles at the same time.
  6. The Jump and Reach Aerobic exercise: (I have not tried this but people say it works) Start in the same position as a standard squat with your knees slightly bent. Squat downward and place your arms behind your body to prepare to jump upward. Pause for a second at the bottom of the squat, rock your weight into your toes and propel your body upward into a jump. Reach overhead as you jump, bend your knees as you land and rock your weight into your heels to protect your knees from the impact. Move right into the second repetition after you land and continue the exercise for 12 to 15 repetitions.
There are sit-ups that help the butt to shapen up. Still in all, none of them are easy to work on. The good thing is that they are goal oriented. So like I always say, let us be positive and that way we would lose weight real fast. I love you all and till next time take care.
 

Worst Makeup Trends: Celebrity Edition Part 2

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I see you’ve enjoyed the first part of the series, which is why you came in for the second installment. Without further ado, let’s get started with it. I promised you guys a famous pop sensation that we all used to follow closely back in the day. She stole our hearts with her hit single ‘Complicated’, which we all could relate to. Yes, I am talking about the one, the only…

 
Avril Lavigne
 

 


 
Source of disaster: Eye makeup

For me, Avril is unique in a lot of ways; she’s one of those few non-Disney pop stars who rose to prominence at a very early age. Besides the fame and glory that she was surrounded by, she never let it get to her head. I mean she had her hiccups with a failed marriage, but she’s comparatively in a much better position than most of her peers, including Britney Spears.

Lavigne went from a purely tomboyish style to a gothic phase, after which she finally decided to let her inner beauty out, going for more feminine clothing and dying her hair blonde. However, one thing that Lavinge forgot to wash off from the gothic phase is that deep shade of black surrounding her eyes. Look at her; with that gorgeous face cut and naturally appealing eyes, she can almost make the cut for a Hollywood lead girl. That weird smokey eye makeup is the only thing standing in her way, which she doesn’t seem to get rid of anytime soon.
Lindsay Lohan

 

Source of disaster: Isn’t it obvious?
Lohan is one of the prime examples of a Disney star gone bad. Starting out with humble beginnings aimed at children, it comes to wonder how she was ever thought of as a role model for minors. But let’s not bring my judgment into this, just focus on the picture above. I really wish this was photo-shopped, but with 'Bronzer’ being the new term used to define Lindsay in Hollywood besides ‘crack addict’, it’s quite evident that something is wrong.

Lindsay apparently spent a little too much time in the tanning beds to move away from the usual ‘bright white princess’ image. The result? Well…

Looks like she has drawn inspiration from the 60’s classic Goldfinger. Don’t worry Lindsay, you’ll find better movie roles covered in Bronze.

Sarah Harding




Source of disaster: Paper thin eyebrows

Harding is probably the least known celebrity on this list, but her eyebrows still deserve more attention than Lohan and Lavinge’s disasters combined. Straight out of a comic book, Harding took plucking to a whole new level previously reserved for Japanese anime characters.

The result? She looks like a mix between a Barbie doll and a Cougar! We don’t really blame Harding for this one, as her boyish haircut actually matches the eyebrows to form a real life version of a Digimon character.

 
Pictured above: Sarah Harding

So that’s the end of part 2. If you enjoyed reading this, you might want to stick around for the final installment of the celebrity disaster series, where I have even more surprises for you.

Worst Make-Up Mistakes: Celebrity Edition Part 1

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It’s no secret that celebrities are role models to millions of young kids, teenagers and even adults. Heck, you remember that dude from the ‘Leave Britney Alone’ videos that went viral on Youtube? He’s 26 years old! And that’s not all, there’s this other 33 year old man who had over $100,000 worth of plastic surgery done. For what, you ask? To make himself look more like his role model. And who’s that? Well…


Is that you Miley Cyrus?
Now that’s some serious dedication. Anyways, I am getting off track here, my point being that celebrities do have a big responsibility on their shoulders to form an image for others to follow. What Katy Perry wears is bound to be the next hit item on a teenage girl’s wish list.
But every now and then, some of these ‘role models’ do take the ‘unique fashion styles’ a bit too far. They do work most of the times, thanks to their star power. But sometimes, even mega stardom cannot save stars from the disasters that their faces wear. Case in point:
Christina Aguilera


Source of Disaster: Eye Shadow
Christina is one of those few pop artists that made their way to Hollywood’s golden screens, being featured on some movies, which are honestly quite forgettable for the most part. But with the added responsibilities of the golden screen on her shoulders, one would expect her to clear out her act and go for more conventionally style makeups. One to always play with fire, Aguilera decided to go for even more eye shadow, completely failing to blend it in with the rest of her skin tone.

The result? Well it looks like someone forgot to wash off their Halloween makeup.

Emily Blunt


 
Source of disaster: Lipstick
I was a bit hesitant adding Miss Blunt on this list because she has always sported a classy minimalistic makeup that was appealing but still blended in. Unlike most of the entries on this list, Emily’s crime wasn’t ‘obvious’ makeup or excessive color. It was, in fact, the opposite i.e. she blended her lips in a bit too well with the rest of her skin tone.

The result? It’s quite obvious from the picture above. Poor Emily looks like she has just been type casted to play the role of a zombie’s wife. I mean look at that lipstick; it’s just too well blended. With Emily’s natural ‘to die for’ eyes being the only obvious feature on that spotless face, the whole thing starts to collapse on itself.

Fortunately, Emily has learnt from her mistakes, as she has now completely ditched the nude lipstick in favor of darker colors. Good for you Miss Blunt!

And with these two entries comes the end of part 1 of this three part makeup disaster series. Stick around, as we’ve got even more entries on the makeup disaster. As an added bonus, there’s also a teenage pop star in part 2 that we all used to love about 10 years. Nostalgia!